Are you looking for something fun and exciting to do?
There are a host of resorts in Arizona that offer many amenities, Such as swimming,golfing, tennis as well as others to choose from. Listed above is just one of those resorts that may be a viable option.
Remember, use this get-a-way as an opportunity to get to
know your spouse a little better as you leave the rest of life’s worries behind
you. As you sit by the pool, or relaxing
in your hotel room take some time to do John Gottman’s Love Map activity. According to Gottman, having a love map is basically
knowing the little things about your spouse.
The small things that are going on in their lives, and knowing those
things can have a big impact on the healthiness of a relationship. It is important to know what your spouse’s
hopes and dreams are, what are the things that are bugging them at work, or
something they are currently worried about.
Here is a list of some of things
you can try to answer about each other that come from Gottman’s Love Map
activity. As you go through and try to answer
these questions and learn about each other, your love map will become more
extensive and your bond with each other will strengthen.
- Name my two closest friends
- What was I wearing when we first met?
- Name one of my hobbies.
- What stresses am I facing right now?
- Describe in detail what I did today, or yesterday.
- What is my fondest unrealized dream?
- What is one of my greatest fears or disaster scenarios?
- What is my favorite way to spend an evening?
- What is one of my favorite ways to be soothed?
- What is my favorite getaway place?
- What are some of the important events coming up in my life? How do I feel about them?
- What are some of my favorite ways to work out?
- Name one of my major rivals or "enemies."
- What would I consider my ideal job?
- What medical problems do I worry about?
- What was my most embarrassing moment?
- Name one of my favorite novels/movies.
- What is my favorite restaurant?
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