Recreate the first date

It is time to show your fondness and admiration toward your spouse. This might not be everyone but for me and my spouse, things changed when we got married. We had so much fun when we were dating because we had those lovey dovey butterflies in our tummies. This date will hopefully bring back those emotions. Recreate your first date! If you went to dinner and played mini golf, do it! If you went for a picnic, do it! Reflect back on your dating years and enjoy each other’s company.

If your fondness and admiration are being chipped away, the route to bringing them back always begins with realizing how valuable they are. They are crucial to the long-tern happiness of a relationship because they prevent contempt from becoming an overwhelming presence in your life. The better in touch you are with your deep positive feelings for each other, the less likely you are to act contemptuous of your spouse when you have a deference of opinion.

Relationship Reconnection: 
Make your relationship a realm in which you and your partner exchange compliments often, and demonstrate how much you admire each other. This is a great way to create a generous, positive relationship.