I'm certain that this has happened to you before; you speak to some one and they may acknowledge you with a uh uh or okay but their attention is some where else. You may even wonder why you even bother. In Zig Zigglars book he stated that when affairs occur it doesn't happen because the betraying party is exceptionally attractive but rather it is because of the interest that that person takes in the significant other.
We cannot have a lasting marriage if we are not sincere and active about taking true and genuine interest in our spouse.
When your spouse speaks to you take the headphones out of your ears, turn off the T.V or do whatever it takes to give them you full, sincere and undivided attention.
Be interested.
P.S if your spouse is telling the same story that you have heard a thousand times DON'T SHUT THEM DOWN. Instead listen to them as though this is the first time you have heard the story. Dismissing the story will not welcome loving feelings. Besides you might make a new connection.
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