20 Questions

 

I’m sure that you’ve heard of the game “20 Questions” at some point in your life. For this date you will be playing this game, taking the opportunity to learn more about your spouse. The materials you’ll need for this date are:

 -paper

-scissors

-writing utensil

-bowl

Both you and your spouse will write down 10 questions that you’d like to know about each other and questions that you’d feel comfortable answering yourself. You’ll then cut each question into its own slip of paper and put them in a bowl. You’ll then take turns picking out a question and reading it aloud. The spouse who didn’t pick the question will answer it first, and then the spouse who picked the question will answer it afterwards. This ensures that both spouses answer all 10 questions that were written by each other, making it 20 questions total.

Your daily R&R Tip! (Relationship Reconnection):

Remember to keep this game fun and enjoyable for the both of you. Do not ask questions that you wouldn't feel comfortable answering yourself or that may hurt your spouse's feelings. You may be answering questions that are on a deeper level, so fight the urge to get defensive or put up walls. This is an opportunity to become vulnerable in order to really connect with your spouse.